Remember, you want to present yourself as in shape and active. We ALL want love, but some guys blow it by rushing. The dating landscape can be tough, and you need to take every opportunity you can to meet new people. Not only are you much better at judging other people, but you also know yourself much better. Follow today. Dating has always been fraught with worries. We get your circumstances might suck, but don't let it consume you.
Lastly, create your own opportunities.
Some common hobbies adopted by older people include taking a cooking class, learning a new language or instrument, and joining a reading group. If you tend to exaggerate your worth in the world, embellish, tell tall tales or generally string a line of BS, women will see right through you.