You can skip all that stress, and go straight to the dates. According to Nielsenactivity on both OkCupid and Tinder peaks at 9 pm, and usage starts to rapidly decline after 10 pm. And even if a woman calls you out on sending a template message, so what? This is a great way to distinguish yourself from the guys competing with you on the site: While everybody enjoys compliments on their looks, focusing too much on physical looks seems to imply shallowness.
Elaina. i want to be the friend you will remember for ever. the one you take into your arms and into your bed and into the private world you keep trapped in your head. i want to be that kind of friend. the one who will memorize the things you say as well as the shape of your lips when you say them. i want to know every curve, every freckle, every shiver of your body.
Yours, Sue Sue — you beat me to it.
The trick, of course, lies in actually being funny. They instantly pique her curiosity.